Kristin Davin, Psy.D, Licensed Psychologist

Individual virtual therapy in New York, New Jersey, Florida, and Connecticut

Divorce Counseling


Two gold rings placed on a torn document with the word "Divorce" prominently displayed.

With divorce counseling, we work together in a step-by-step process to not only find healthy ways to resolve your current challenges, but also help you overcome and move through your emotions.

Going through a divorce is hard—there’s no way around it.
It’s the end of the future you once imagined, and with that comes a complex mix of emotions: grief, regret, relief, and uncertainty about what comes next.

But, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

In our work together, we’ll create space to process the emotional weight of this transition—whether you’re feeling heartbreak, guilt, or simply overwhelmed. I’ll support you in making sense of the decisions you’ve made and help you move forward with clarity and strength.

We’ll also focus on showing up for your children with emotional awareness and resilience—so they learn that even during difficult times, it’s possible to lead with compassion, grace, and grounded presence.

Whether you need help managing communication with your ex, working through legal decisions, or simply making space for your own healing, I’m here to support you every step of the way.

Divorce is a transition—but it doesn’t have to define you. Let’s work together to help you move forward with confidence and peace.

6 Ways I Help You Through the Divorce Process

1. Manage Your Reactions—Not Theirs

Divorce can bring up intense emotions, and it’s easy to get pulled into reacting to your ex. But the focus isn’t on controlling them—it’s on staying centered and grounded in your own responses. I’ll help you navigate your emotions so you can respond with clarity and self-respect, no matter how they show up.

2. Expect the Unexpected

Even if you think you know how your ex will act, divorce is emotional and unpredictable. People often behave in surprising ways. We’ll work on preparing for tough conversations—like writing down what you want to say—so you can feel more in control when emotions run high.

3. Redefining Forgiveness

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing what happened. It’s about freeing yourself from the weight of anger, resentment, and pain. You don’t have to rush it—but over time, letting go helps you move forward without carrying old emotional baggage into your future.

4. Envisioning Life Beyond This

Right now, it might feel impossible to imagine what comes next. But there is life after divorce. Together, we’ll start mapping out your next chapter—whether that means settling into a new home, reconnecting with your identity, or simply finding peace in your day-to-day.

5. Reclaiming Your Sense of Self

This isn’t just an ending—it’s a chance to rediscover you. We’ll talk through co-parenting challenges, break old relationship patterns, and help you heal so that if and when you’re ready for something new, you’re entering it from a stronger, healthier place.

6. Setting Goals You Can Actually Reach

Healing doesn’t happen all at once. That’s why setting clear, realistic goals—both emotional and practical—can help you feel more steady. I’ll support you in creating a plan that keeps you moving forward in a way that fits your pace and values.

Divorce is a chapter, not the whole story. Let’s walk this path together—with intention, clarity, and care.

Interested in working together? Just click here and set up your free 15 minute consultation. It’s easy!